One of the biggest challenges for young people is making right choices. When it comes to decision-making, many youths, myself included, find it difficult to decide. When I was younger, my parents dedicated their energy to teaching and raising me right. I was taught simple basic etiquette, like how to talk, eat, and behave. However, as I grew older, I thought it was very unnecessary. “Why all these rules?” I wondered to myself. Gradually, I felt the urge to rebel. Whenever I was corrected or rebuked, I would wear a frown and mutter words like “I’m grown, I don’t need anyone to tell me what to do”.
As I navigated through my teenage years, I encountered opportunities to make decisions. I had to choose and some of the choices I made ultimately shaped the course of my life. I made some regrettable decisions and faced the consequences. It became clear to me that every decision carries weight and has repercussions thus making the right choice matters.
Knowledge Is Vital to make right choices
Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding.
Proverbs 4:7
As I enter my twenties, I’ve come to understand that making the right choices is crucial for a successful journey through life. The beauty of being a Homo sapiens is that we are blessed with free will. We have been given the ability to make choices, and every choice we make, whether good or bad, comes with consequences. When it comes to making the right choices, I believe there is no one-size-fits-all rule. However, knowledge plays a crucial role in decision-making. What you don’t know can harm you, and if you choose the unknown out of ignorance, you might face unforeseen consequences.
In my own words, I believe that to make the right choices in life, you must humble yourself and be open to learning. You should be willing to learn from those who have more experience than you. Many teenagers and young adults often feel too proud to accept corrections. It’s a phase we all go through. As we grow older, we start to think that we know everything. However, knowledge is always expanding, and what you knew yesterday might not be accurate today. Therefore, it’s important to remain open to learning. Knowledge is powerful, and having the right kind of knowledge can help you make wise choices.
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That being said I have listed down Below 10 tips to help you decide and make the right choices:
1. Seek God’s Guidance in Prayer:
As a young person navigating life, I encourage you to cultivate a habit of Regularly praying and seeking God’s guidance when faced with decisions. Ask for wisdom, discernment, and clarity in understanding His will for your life,trusting that He will direct your path (Psalm 37:23)
Know and Apply Scripture:
The word of God is able to make a young man or woman wise. Give yourself to the word.Study the Bible to understand God’s principles and teachings. Apply these truths to your decision-making process, aligning your choices with biblical values.If you do this, you are rest assured to make right choices. Knowledge of scripture provides a foundation for making informed decisions.
3. Seek Wise Counsel:
The decision making process can sometimes be blurry. It’s also advisable to Consult with trusted mentors, pastors,parents or experienced Christians who can provide guidance and share their wisdom based on their own experiences.Their insights can provide valuable perspectives.
4. Consider Long-Term Consequences:
It is proven that the consequences of our actions affects all those around us. When making choices please reflect on the potential long-term consequences of your choices. Consider how they align with your Christian values and impact your spiritual journey. Remember your life is an open letter being read by all (2 Corinthians 3:2)
5. Evaluate Motives and Intentions:
Examine your motives and intentions behind each decision. Ensure that your choices are driven by a desire to honor God and serve others rather than self-interest (Philippians 2:3-4). Consider how your choices align with God’s will for your life. Reflect on whether your decisions honor God and contribute to your spiritual growth.
6. Listen to the Holy Spirit:
Those that allow themselves to be led by the Spirit of God are the children of God. As a child of God that you are,be attuned to the promptings of the Holy Spirit. Trust your spiritual instincts and allow the Holy Spirit to guide you in making decisions that align with God’s plan for your life.If something doesn’t feel right, take the time to reconsider and pray for clarity.
7. Community Accountability:
Evil communication corrupts good morals (1 Corinthians 15:33). Surround yourself with a supportive Christian community. Share your decisions with trusted friends or mentors who can provide feedback, encouragement, and accountability.Build relationships with fellow Christians who share your values. Positive influences can provide support and accountability in making right choice.
8. Reflect on God’s Character:
Have you ever been in a position to choose or decide and you ask yourself what will Jesus do? As young Christians it’s paramount we consider the nature of God and His character when making decisions. Strive to make choices that reflect His love, grace, and righteousness. Be mindful of peer pressure and societal influences that may contradict Christian values. Stand firm in your faith and make choices based on your convictions.
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9. Learn from Mistakes:
Recognize that everyone makes mistakes. If you make a wrong choice, learn from it, seek forgiveness, and use it as an opportunity for growth and maturation in your faith.
10. Stay Grounded in Faith:
Cultivate a strong foundation of faith through prayer, Bible study, and involvement in your church community. A firm spiritual grounding will provide a solid framework for making wise choices.Be Patient: Allow time for discernment. Not every decision needs an immediate answer. Patiently wait on God’s timing and trust that He will reveal the right path.
Remember, being a Christian youth involves navigating life’s challenges with a reliance on God’s guidance. Through prayer, biblical understanding, and seeking wise counsel, you can make right choices that align with your Christian values and contribute to your spiritual growth.
Take each day as it comes,you are led by the Spirit thus you can’t be confused. I pray that you receive the grace to make right choices.
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